22 June 2008

Strenght and Power Of Dua In Islam

Dua means supplication.

Once Prophet Muhammad passed by a people who were suffering from some affliction.

"Why don't they make dua (pray) to Allah for protection," he said.

With all the suffering and disasters Muslims are facing in various parts of the world, the question can be directed to all of us today.

It is not that we have forgotten dua completely; we refer to it regularly. But, our ideas and practice regarding dua have become distorted. Often it is reduced to the level of a ritual. Generally it is considered when all our efforts have failed --- an act of last resort. It is belittled through actions and sometimes even with words. Is it any wonder that today mostly a mention of dua is meant to indicate the hopelessness of a situation.

What a tragedy, for dua is the most potent weapon of a believer. It can change fate, while no action of ours ever can. It is the essence of ibadah or worship. With it we can never fail; without it we can never succeed. In the proper scheme of things, dua should be the first and the last resort of the believer, with all his plans and actions coming in between.

Dua is conversation with Allah, out Creator, our Lord and Master, the All Knowing, the All Powerful. This act in itself is of extraordinary significance. It is the most uplifting, liberating, empowering, and transforming conversation a person can ever have. We turn to Him because we know that He alone can lift our sufferings and solve our problems. We feel relieved after describing our difficulties to our Creator. We feel empowered after having communicated with the All Mighty. We sense His mercy all around us after talking to the Most Merciful. We get a new commitment to follow His path for that is the only path for success. We feel blessed with each such commitment

In every difficulty our first action is dua, as is our last. We ask Allah to show us the way to handle that difficulty; we seek His help in following the path He shows to us; we seek His aid in making our efforts successful. When we fall sick, we know that we cannot find the right doctor without His Will; that the best doctor may not be able to diagnose our condition without His Command; that the best treatment plan will not succeed without His Permission. We make dua for all of these. We make dua before we seek medical help, while we are receiving it and after it has been delivered. The same is true of all other difficulties we may encounter.

Dua is the essence of ibadah. A person engaged in dua affirms his belief in Tawheed (monotheism) and shuns belief in all false gods. With each dua his belief in Allah grows. He beseeches Him, affirming his own powerlessness. A person seriously and sincerely engaged in dua understands exactly the relationship between himself and the Creator and affirms it through his actions. That is the essence of worship! Additionally, such a person can never become arrogant or proud, a logical result of true worship.

Dua is our most potent weapon in all struggles of life as well as in jihad in the battlefield. During the battle of Badr, the Prophet Muhammad stood up all night in prayer seeking Allah's help in the battle between unequal armies that would follow the next day. In the decisive battles against the crusaders, Sultan Salatuddin Ayyubi was busy day and night. His days were devoted to Jihad. His nights were spent making dua, crying, seeking Allah's help. This has been the practice of all true mujahideen.

We should make it a point to make dua for all things big and small. It is the beginning of wisdom to realise that big and small are arbitrary labels that are totally irrelevant in this context. Nothing is too big for Whom we are asking from; nothing is too small for the one who is asking. That is why we have been taught to ask Allah when we need something as small as shoelaces. We should ask as a beggar, as a destitute person, for that is what we in reality are in relationship to Allah. At the same time we should ask with great hope and conviction that we shall be granted our prayers. We should remember the Hadith:
"There is nothing more dear to Allah than a servant making dua to Him."
On the other hand, a prayer lacking concentration and conviction is no prayer at all.

We should make dua at all times, not only during times of distress. The Prophet Muhammad said:
"Whosoever desires that Allah answers his duas in unfavorable and difficult conditions, he should make plentiful dua in days of ease and comfort."
Also he said:
"The person who does not ask from Allah, Allah becomes angry with him."

We should ask for all of our needs: those related to this world as well as those related to the Hereafter. Those who only concentrate on the former are, in effect, announcing that they don't care for their life in the permanent abode. They should blame no body but themselves for the total ruin in that world that Qur'an assures us awaits them. Those who only concentrate on the later are also showing lack of balance, for we need Allah's help to lead a good life here as well.
We should make dua not only for ourselves but also for our parents, brothers and sisters, spouses and children, relatives and friends, teachers and other benefactors, and destitute and struggling Muslims everywhere. We should pray for them for the good in this world as well as in the Hereafter. The Prophet said:
"The dua of a Muslim for his brother (in Islam) in his absence is readily accepted. An angel is appointed to his side. Whenever he makes a beneficial dua for his brother the appointed angel says, 'Aameen. And may you also be blessed with the same.'" [Sahih Muslim]

In the dark ages that we are living in today, everyday brings fresh news about atrocities committed against our brothers in Palestine, Kashmir, India, Afghanistan, Iraq, Chechnya, and the list goes on. And what do we do? We can continue to just feel frustrated and depressed. We can petition the determined perpetrators or a fictional "International Community". We can just forget all this and move on to some other subject. Or we can stand up before Allah and pray for His help, who alone can help. The dua can change our life, our outlook, and our fate. It is the most potent weapon. But it works only for those who try sincerely and seriously to use it.

Source: Khalid Baig

123 comments - Click link below to add yours:

Anonymous said... 18/9/08 12:25 pm  

SALAMUALIKUM
DOESE IN MUSLIM BROTHER OR SISTER KNOW IN DUA THAT CAN MAKE ME SUCCESS FOR IN THIS LIFE. I AM HAVING LOTS OF TROUBLE IN MY LIFE AT HOME AND OUTSIDE MAKE DUA FOR ME TO BE SUCCESSFUL IN MY LIFE. IF ANY MUSLIM BROTHER/SISTER KNOW ANY DUA PLEASE EMAIL ME AT
SUHELBANGLAWALA@HOTMAIL.CO.UK
SUKRIYA AND JAZAKALLAH

Anonymous said... 18/11/08 1:00 pm  

Rabana 'atina fid dunya hasanata wa fil akhirati hasanatau wa kina azaban nahar

ea ur said... 27/12/08 10:04 am  

can you make dua to go back and change a big mistake

Anonymous said... 7/1/09 6:48 pm  

yeah I think you can! Nothing is immpossible!

Passing by.. said... 11/1/09 9:20 am  

ea ur - If you have made a big mistake (im assuming its a sin), the fact that you are acknowledging that mistake is the first step, you can then make a clear and firm intention that you will never to commit that sin again and you are truly sorry and regretting it, pray some rakaats nafil prayer (for tuabah / repentance) and make sincere dua for forgivness.. maybe even shed some tears. Allah knows best..

Anonymous said... 8/2/09 11:02 pm  

Salams brother and sisters in islam,Please make lots of dua for my mum. She's really unwell..

Anonymous said... 23/2/09 4:03 am  

dear brothers and sisters ...

Do remember me in ur prayers .. I m going thru difficult times. May Allah give me patience and increase my love for Him. And fulfill my desires of which I ask from Him. Ameen

Anonymous said... 3/3/09 5:05 am  

looking at adult videos is that ziney?

kaas said... 4/3/09 12:41 pm  

salaam ,plz remember in u r duas for happlyness in life i love some plz for me to at that plz i love in sick of Allah plz i lovetruthly to that plz paring for my Aim and happyness in my life .

kaas said... 4/3/09 12:44 pm  

I want say to all poples in the world plz remember in u r duas for happnesss in my life plz remember , i want say u personal to dua for to get my love and Aim .

Anonymous said... 11/3/09 1:59 pm  

Hi
Does anyone know any dua to bring back the person you love back in your life. I was engaged and it was broken off and now the guy came back to me but he changed his mind again. Hes doing things which is not appropriate and crazy for a guy to do. Can someone please email me any dua for love. Please email me at desi_gal19@yahoo.com.
Salaam

Anonymous said... 30/3/09 11:12 pm  

im facing a very personal prb nw a days regarding to ma marriage.if any brother or sister knw any suitabl dua plz tel me n also pray 4 me

Anonymous said... 5/4/09 6:06 am  

looking at adult videos is that ziney?

Anonymous said... 9/5/09 11:49 pm  

May Allah guide us all.

nav said... 15/5/09 3:27 am  

make dua for me...iam jobless since several months after my graduation..May ALLAH forgive our sins and bless us all.

bas said... 18/5/09 1:16 pm  

Nav, may ALLAH give you all what you demand. And may ALLAH,forgive our sins and put us under his throne, when there is none but his throne. Ameen.

Anonymous said... 18/5/09 10:38 pm  

SALAMUALAIKUM
RESPECTED BROTHER AND SISTERS I AM WRITING FROM CANADA I AM A MUSLIM GUY WHO MARRIED A SIKH PUNJABI GIRL AND NOW SHE WANTS TO TAKE DIVORCE AND SHE IS REALLY FAR AWAY FROM ME I LOVE HER SO MUCH I REALLY WANT HER BACK IN MY LIFE PLEASE PRAY FOR ME THAT SHE COME'S BACK TO ME

Anonymous said... 3/6/09 1:08 am  

YA WUDOODU. this name of ALLAH recited frequently provides love inshALLAH. ALLAH TALA knows best.

Anonymous said... 3/6/09 1:10 am  

LISTEN TO SURAT RAHMAN 3 TIMES A DAY FOR 7 DAYS, INSHALLAH IT WILL CURE ALL AILMENTS. THE RECITATION BY KARI ABDUL BASIT ABDUSAMAD IS PARTICULARLY RECOMMENDED.

Anonymous said... 7/6/09 2:27 pm  

hey
my i want my love back,
any dua for getting him back?
he just got away without saying something,
and i want an answear to what has happened

Anonymous said... 18/6/09 3:36 am  

if you have full faith in Allah, then am sure you believe in his mirracles too.. just keep praying YA ALLAH HU as many times you can with pain in your heart with the desire and expectation off getting your loved 1 back to you.. dont lose hope what ever you do..Inshallah its my dua from my deepest off my heart you will get your loved one back Inshallah Ameen..i know exactly how your feeling,am going thru the same situation,please pray for me also,the 1 i love is getting forced marriage to some 1 he hates,please i beg you pray for me that my love comes back to me and his wedding with that girl dont go thru,and he comes back to me and never leaves me ever..i will die without him i love him more then anything kassam he means the world to me..please pray for me..may Allah grant all you duas as soon as possible and grants all your wishes AMEEN AMEEN SUMMAH AMEEN..xxx Sophia

Anonymous said... 1/7/09 1:07 pm  

I am on the verge of losing someone very special to me to an arranged marriage, I want to be with her with all my heart, and love her very much, Please brothers/sisters pray for me that she comes back to me, its 2 weeks til the engagement, and a month til the wedding, I have been praying for her to come back to me, and as of yet nothing, but I believe in Allah, and if you believe in your faith, and in what you want, then in most cases can come true.. This is a very complex situation, but one that i need a dua for please. If you do not know of any dua's then at least pray for us, that's all i ask.. Ameen

Anonymous said... 7/7/09 10:52 pm  

pray namaz and after every maghrib namaz pray salaat tu haazat namaz..and between asar n maghrib pray 1000 tasbih wazeefah off "laa illaha illaah antah subhaa naka inni kuntum minaz zaa limin.. but b4 u start and wen finished ur wazeefa pray darood shareef 11 times..Inshallah i hope n pray to Allah u get ur loved 1 back wit in this month..i know exactly wot ur goin thru..the guy i love to bits is also getin married first week ov august to some1 he hated all his life fo family sake..but i love him to bits and i cant stay without him n i know he cant too..please my dear brother pls pray for me too i beg u.. Sophia xxx

Anonymous said... 10/7/09 6:10 pm  

I can exactly feel how you guys are feeling, sadly i am going thru the same thing. My suluation is a little more complex than you guys. You all will be in my prayers here is what i found i hope it will help you guys. Please don't forget me in your prayers...


ya Jami?u ياجامع) 1111 )times any time

Or Surah 20 Ta-Ha 20times.
Or Sura Ikhlas forty-one (41) times with eleven (11)
times Darud Sharif in the beginning and the end.
for 90 consecutive night. if you forget one night start it over.

Please Please keep me in your Prayers.

Anonymous said... 11/7/09 2:23 am  

salaam every1

i am very touched by reading everyones comments, as i am also going throu the same thing... i felt as if i was the only one who lost a loved one and still love him like mad...
i really want him back as i kno he is the one for me and i pray morning noon and night.
which is the best dua to help me think more positive and make the guy i love come back to me??? inshallah all of our prayers will be answered

Anonymous said... 13/7/09 6:57 pm  

WOw, i wonder if Allah ever will answer our prayers. I am starting to lose faith in God. Why does Allah always punish people that are good. Why these guys have the power to hurt innocent girls. Well I am sure if we didn't care about Allah we wouldn't been hurt we would just be like guys and move to someone elas.

I know it sounds bad but i never get answer for my prayer.....If anyone does let me know maybe that will help bring my faith back to Allah..

Anonymous said... 14/7/09 7:46 am  

Assalamualaikum.. I have been graduated as mechanical engineer in 2008 and since then i have been waiting for a good job. I am not yet employed. I have been asking Allah for a good job if not a good one atleast a job sir. I have been doing my ziyaraaat every day after fazr and maghrib. i have been praying surah fatiha, khul and allah humma salliyala surah for 101 times each and ya razzaku and ya kareemu each 100 times but i have nt recieved any good deeds yet sie. Plz sir i have a very poor family and my dad has taken so many debts and its not his age to clear all them . I need allah rahmath and miracles in ouer lives sir. I have been cryin daily for my job in every namaz and dua i do..plz sir help me out to get a good job and help me uplift my family. I am nothin left but my tears in my life. I am in need of allahs blessings more than anyone. whosoever reads this plz pray for me that i get a job and take care of my family. I am jus living with one hope that allah wud listen to me one day and he wud definitely reward me with good job. Plz sir plz pray for thsi lil brother of yours. i need all your support and allahs blessings in my life. i have many more to say but i think once i get a reply from you i wud be able to tell u all my problems sir..Please pray for me and i am waiting for your reply sir.. and one more thing to feel bad is that i love a gal to da core for mor than 6 years and now i am royally ditched by her. she has been ignoring me and we are no more in touch wid others. after reading all your comments i feel that thwere are many more pple like me who have been victim for such kinda things. I love her truely madly and deeply. i wann her in my life. Please pray for me and i have nothing left in my life to be happy. I am in crisis and i dont think there is any refuge for me apart from allah. please i beg u all whosoever reads this please pray for me and mail me er comments to amjadmech123@gmail.com. er reply wud be of great help for me.Please do reply and help me over come my prob. Take care

Allah hafiz

Anonymous said... 14/7/09 5:32 pm  

wow we are in the same boat. Same problems and many more. I will pray for you bro. Allah will filfull your life with lots of happiness and give you wethever your asking for.

I give up Hope, I will never ever get what i want, maybe God is punishing me for something i don't know.

I see people around me, my family my friend Mushallah have everything they wanted, they don't even pray nothing. And here me helping my family praying to god always afriad of his anger but i am getting paid this way.

Maybe this is written, and no dua is going to change my life.

Life is not fairrrrr. I know i will not get what i want beucase i havn't got any answer of any of my prayers, But Allah Please give these Lovers their love back (I exactly can feel their pain becuase i am going through this). Filfull their Dreams and make them strong Muslims.

Ameen

Anonymous said... 18/7/09 10:05 pm  

All i can say is that, when you pray... pray as if your dua has already come true. have full faith and not even an inch of doubt that your dua wont come true, as this will be the thing stopping it from coming to you. nothing is impossible for Allah. just by even saying Bismillah with conviction and by fully concentrating on your dua will make it come true. try it and let me know, but you need to have patience as Allah knows better and you don't. its tried and tested, you can have anything you want in this world, all you need to have is strong faith and concentration.

Anonymous said... 21/7/09 9:10 pm  

Hi i am new to this, but i understand how it feels to lose the one you love. Please dont lose faith and trustin god, god is always thre and does answer duas, but sometimes when we are going through so much pain and we see other people who do so much bad get what they want it kinda reduces our faith,but please doont do that cos its the shaytaan trying to take you away fom allah. When you do dua, do dua like it has already come true and put your trust in god- instead of sayng you want this persn- say/ ask god to do whats best for you and help you heal and to give you strength. God loves poeple who are patient- never say your duas wont come true- cos that means your not putting your 100% trust in allah Im going through i break up and it hurts like mad, expecially when i didnt do anything wrong. Also google awesome dua stories- its a forum where people have posted duas that have come true- it really helps with reviving faith.

I hope what ive written makes sense, and im truly sorr if ive offended anyone with what ive written.

I will do dua for all of you

Anonymous said... 26/7/09 2:57 am  

i feel ur pain am goin true da same bt eva lose faith insha-allah all our prayers will cume true soon n they will be goood 4 us. n iwont 4gt al of uz in da dua'z insha-allah

Anonymous said... 30/7/09 10:45 am  

Hi!!
Friends, actually i'm Hindu but i'm in love with muslim guy who left me and got married to the girl in his caste, but i still believe that ALLAH excepts our dua if we ask him sincerely and through bottom of our heart. Sometimes he delays but he surely showers his blessings on us. Trust ALLAH & make dua. Always remember that if he takes away something from you, He also have something better to give you which is suitable for you...
Insha Allah!!May ALLAH solve your all problems & fullfil your dua

happy said... 19/8/09 12:50 pm  

AOA,
i love a girl working in my office.
when i told her my feeling for her, she talked to me for 2 days as a very good frnd. but from the third day she started ignoring me and now she dont look at me. i want her i my life. she is non muslim. i want to be with her for the rest of my life, because i love her too much.
please tell me dua which can make this possible.
also please pray for me
my id is nasir.rbl@gmail.com

Anonymous said... 22/8/09 10:53 am  

Aslak All brother and sisters,

I am very tensed now a days and my days and night has become hell, i m very bad person as i feel from inside, i got married long back and having kids but two years back i fell in love with another girl and more than me she loved me and i could never dare to say wahat i m, i never told her truth because i never wanted to loose her, she has always dreamt about marriage and i always kept her waiting but i dono when i started loving her that without her even i cant imagine to live and i hav realised that the person whom i love so much i sud never cheat and i have told her truth all about me, it was very painful for her but she accepted the fact and she said still i love u so much and i m ready to accept yr kids if u wish... but this is very tough for me to leave my wife... but i cant liv with her too... she said she will never get married... what i want to ask here from u all , can i ever get my LOVE as my wife if i pray a lot to ALLAH, is that possible that destiny chnages and she become my wife...!! is that possible to get her back... i know i m very bad person and i m repenting for wat i hav done but i love her so truly same she is.. i cry alwys wenever i m alone.... advice me plz... i m read to wait for her till i die.. if she become my wife in this life b4 i die... advice me plz...

Anonymous said... 23/8/09 12:15 pm  

Daily pray TWO Nafil as SALATUL-HAJJAT and seek ALLAH,s special blessings for job/Rizaq.
InshaALLAH, you will not be disappointed. From Darweesh

Anonymous said... 26/8/09 11:10 pm  

i love this guy for 20months but he left me bcoz i started to accused and doubted him 5months back.. i can't get over him and still love him a lot, we suppose to get married but he was really upset and left me.. he used to talk to me on da fone but now it's been 3weeks he switched off his fone, i have been apologizing him and even begged him but he is not willing to accept me back.. i really wanna get married to him i love him more den my life but he is stil angry he does email me but telling me to sort ur life.. what shal i do please tell me any dua... i have been praying 5times of namaz plus ya latifo ya waduda, molvi told me to but it's been 5months he is not back yet and not willing to marry me

Anonymous said... 26/8/09 11:14 pm  

even compelted, 90 nightz of surat ikhlas 41 times... i just love this guy even broken my marriage my parents fixed my marriage two months back but i cant think about anyone else, i love him and it feel like i am gonna die without him.. pls help me my email address is unknownukgal@hotmail.com

Anonymous said... 26/8/09 11:17 pm  

please help me, i am fasting praying 5times or namaz and even praying and praying whole day but nuffin is happening, things are not getting better. even go to mosque for namaz... what shall i do, my marriage will make me get married after ramadan and i acnt get married i love him so much and even he touched quran tht he loves me too 6months back and even he was willing to marry me but for little mistake he left me... please people help me and tell me dua

Anonymous said... 31/8/09 11:36 pm  

I pray to God that all of your prayers get accepted and god gives you guys your Love for ever. I just found out the guy i love got enganged so i lost him for ever. But i would pray for his happeness, i pray to god to give me the power to forget him and start my life again. Amin.....

It Hurts Alotttttt..... I wonder if I have done anything bad that GOd is punishing me for it. I will Ask for his forgivness and mercy... He is the olny one that knows everthing...

Anonymous said... 2/9/09 2:19 pm  

thanks a lot, i know love hurts a lot but Allah knows what good for us, i am losing my head and cried my eyes out, i feel so empty, i have tried to forget him and move on in life but i couldnt, i always fail, even broken my marriage my parents fixed two months back, i love him a lot tht i feel like my world is ended. he is being so cold and heartless, i really wish tht he will accept and marry me. Allah know tht i love and care for him, i want him more den d world and i wish tht he wil b d way he was.. i wishing and hoping, but i am getting tried bcoz he is still angry and nt willin to forgive me

Anonymous said... 2/9/09 2:21 pm  

ur so sweet, and inshallah Allah will gve u all d happiness in d world.. and u will find someone really good...

Anonymous said... 10/9/09 3:13 am  

Salam Everyone,

It is sad, but also comforting to know that I am not the only one going through a 'love gone bad' situation. Can you please make dua for me. I am doing what I know, that is, making lots of duas day and night, praying tahajjud every night etc...Please pray that the person I care about comes back with khair.

Anonymous said... 10/9/09 3:16 am  

Also, for people who are losing faith in Allah because your prayers are not answered immediately, this may help you. Just a few days ago I was truly hoping I could find someone who was going for Umrah this ramadan so I could ask them to make dua for me. I made a silent dua in my heart and that same night, I found out a friend of mine that I haven't talked to in months was leaving for umrah that night - I, of course, forever greedy for duas jumped at the opportunity and thanked Allah (SWT)for answering my prayer. Have faith and ask Allah to strenghten your Imaan, for that is what we all need the most when going through rough times. May Allah accept our just duas.

Anonymous said... 18/9/09 10:03 pm  

To nav who is lookin for work this dua is very gud in gettin a job fast.its surah mohman saparah 24 ayath 44 recite 100 & 11 times, after reading that read 1 thasbee of yah rasoolilah adrikhni hai feesabililah. oh and u have to read after fajr namaaz gudluck hope u get the job u want x

Anonymous said... 18/9/09 10:26 pm  

salaamz to all i started readin namaaz few years back after losin my dad who i was very close to which me left with a broken heart. But after prayin i feel like Allah has given me the strength to move on.
I dont think i wud have been able to move on without the help of Allah.I think the best thing i ever did was starting to read namaaz i feel so much more happier and feel like i belong i think i would be lost if i didnt have my religion.i have recently been offered a new job which i am so thankful to Allah for and met a lovely man who i hope is the one for me inshallah, life has never felt so good. ive finally started to belive in miracles and i owe it all to Allah have faith people Allah does help his servants may you all find happiness in life please pray for me i marry this man and i will keep u all in my prayers xxx.

Anonymous said... 28/9/09 12:37 am  

salam,
Wow i thought i was only one with this problem, actually i love this guy and we were together for year and half but we just broke up month ago because i found he was cheating on me...he left me for her but he says he doesnt know if he loves her and he loves me, i don't understand this plus hes mom doesn't like me...i been crying and asking ALLAH for him to come back to me...its sad yet funny how ALLAH tests us because the guy i love said "u deserve better" but i don't get why ALLAH brought me and him close and then parted..its not a joke yet its life.
i did everything i could but now i'm losing faith, why do we get something in life when we don't deserve it? then taken away to be rewarded for better? i dont want better i just want what i had!
please someone help me what to do!

Anonymous said... 30/9/09 6:12 pm  

aoa
i lost my love and i want to get married to him onmly i cannnt go to some other persom plz pray for me
dua may yaad rakho plz
may allah accept all ur duas ameen summa ameen

Syed said... 6/10/09 6:07 pm  

Assalamualikum brothers and sisters,
I am syed tausif.i am 24 years old.i discontinued my diploma because of hindu girl who loved me and cheated me then i found one online hindu friend who loved me she came to bangalore for me and she also did the same with me and i nevr met this girl at all.then i started making friends in networking site and found a girl from bangalore.we loved each other and she used to call me from her friends mobile and had told me to get my proposal to their house before any other comes and today i was shocked to know that some broker got a proposal and they have accepted it.people from boys house will come in 2 days.i donno wat to do.she had given me duas to read and i did all and i mainly accepted pur rishta only after praying isteqara and have told all this to my mom and i donno now how will i tell my mom that this has happend.i was in search of a job this thing happend.she has told me that get a job and to come to their home beofre that broker comes again,pray for me that i marry this girl whom i love.inshallah allah will do all better.pls suggest me some dua so that i marry her soon.i am from banglore and need a job in a day too.pls pray for me and my gonna be wife if allah wishes

Anonymous said... 13/10/09 4:37 pm  

Salaam to all of my Brothers & Sisters .
please dont get dispointed if ur prayers are not answered.
I have gone thru the same.
and still going on da same.
what ever allah wishes it happens
and what ever he dosnt it never happens.
I know saying this is very easyyy
but doing it is very hard.
But never say i lose faith from Allah.
Coz he knows what is rite for us and what is wrong.

There is a Saying of Hazart Ali A.S.
" Some times you find that your requests are not immediately granted then you dont have to be disppointed because grant of prayer often rests with the "True Purpose" or "Intention" of the implorer. Some times, the prayers are Delayed coz the merciful Lord wants US to recive further rewards, Patiently Bearing Calamities and Sufferings and still Believing sincerely in his HELP. thus u may be awarded better Favours than you asked for coz you often, unknowingly, ask for the things that really harmful to us, and many of our requests may be such that if granted they will result in our eternal damnation.
The refusal to acceede to Our Solicitations is a Blessing in disguise.

Love really Hurts.But we hv to go thru.
I still pray for all of us for a better life.
ameen.
Ya ali madad.
jawadia@gmail.com

Anonymous said... 13/10/09 4:48 pm  

Namaaz of Haajaat.
The Holy Prophet (s.a.) Said that whose desires
to make the impossible likely to happen may pray this Namaaz All legilimate desires will also be Fulfilled. With good Intention.
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This Namaaz is also prayed to bring rain, the mercy of Allah unto mankind.
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Pray 4 Rak-a'ts, in two parts, each part exactly like the Fajr Namaaz, with the following adjustments.
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(A) Part one.
1. In the 1st Rak'at, after the recitation of Sooratul Faatih-ah, Recite sooratul Ikhalaas, 11 times.

2. In the 2nd Rak'at, after the recitation of sooratul Faatih-ah, Recite sooratul Ikhalaas, 21 times.

B) Part two.
1. In the 1st Rak-a't, after the recitation of sooratul Faatih-ah, recite sur Ikhalaas, 31 times.

2. In the 2nd Rak-a't after the reciatation of sur faatih-ah, recite sur Ikhalaas, 41 times.

C) After Salaam, Recite Salwaat 51 times.
D) go into Sajdah and recite 100 times
Ya allahu ( O Allah )
E) And Mention your desires to seek fulfilment, or beseech allah to make it rain.
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Inshallah we all shall pray and ask forgiveness from Allah.
Inshallah Allah will forgive us n make our legal wish come true.
Ameen.
jawadia@gmail.com

Anonymous said... 15/10/09 11:43 am  

as salamu alyqum to all friends,
i have just read the whole thread & wondered I am not the only one going thru the terrible pain that feels like bleeding continously from heart. But, friends please dont loose ur patience and trust on Allah.Because Allah listens to our duas until & unless we say that 'oh!!! i have prayed so musc still didn't get any answe.' & also we should keep the faith that our duas will be accepted-just think my friends how much our parents love us who have given our birth in this world; now u think how much the Almighty loves us who has created us all..it just happened that we are born from a particualr couple but its the Allah who is our true guardian. seek help from him openly with ur full heart devoted to himself & request him to save u from the painful situation-believe strongly that Allah was infront of you-listening to duas. he is the great & only king of his kingdom & there is nothing that he cant give to us. for getting it, our intention should be good and our trust on him should be firm.

One more thing- during the last part of night Allah comes to the sky closest to us & asks if anyone wants something from him, if anyone wants forgiveness. so- try to make your duas in that time & i assure u-u'll feel so close to him when the whole world is sleeping u r talking to the greatest power-the Almighty, Allah paak, the Listener. Inshallah u wont come back with empty hands.

personal thanks to the anonymas who has described to pray namaaz of hajaat.may Allah bless you friend and fulfill ur wishes.

and request to the writers who have posted comment that they have given up-plz dear sister/ brother dont give up-bcos once u give up, satan is here to capture u from Allah & from urself. I understand how hard it is for u still i would say just dont give up because anything can possible for the Almighty to do to his servants & definitely I'll pray for u so that things dont get any worse for u guys.

to all the friends who have posted- i'LL pray for u inshallah and please remember me in ur prayers too. also make prayers for ur family, friends and distressed people- u'll be rewarded with the rahmat of duas that will be hundred times greater than what u've asked for others.

stay well my friends, its a bad time for us all- but we wont loose hope & our prayers will be answered inshallah.

-fahmida

Anonymous said... 24/10/09 11:17 pm  

salaam brothers and sisters, i am currently going through a really bad time as i am being forced to leave the one i love, i just want to be strong at this moment and would be grateful if you guys would include me in your prayers...may Allah help you all, ameen

Anonymous said... 27/10/09 1:00 pm  

Looks like The Entire Dua threads have started to get Love Related Problem.
Please Remember Brothers and Sisters,there are lot of other difficulties in your life too.
Before making any complaint to Allah(swt)..thank Allah(swt),for what he has offered to you.And the most precious gift for you is that You are a Muslim.The harm that comes to us is never from Almighty Allah(swt),but from our own wrongdoings.
May Allah(swt) forgive all of our sins,The sins of those who are alive.The sins of those muslims who are living, ans also the sins for muslims to come. Always pray to Allah(swt),that We Die as true muslims,And that is the Final Reward we attain in this world.
Try to make life simple,for yourself,your loved ones,and people around you.
Pray to Allah(swt) always,in great humility,And you shall see..none of your valid wishes and needs do not go unfulfilled.For only Allah(swt) knows what is best for you.
Please Remember in your Dua's too.

Anonymous said... 31/10/09 2:44 pm  

may allah help us and bless us with all the wonderful thing is this world and the world after.may allah guide us to the write path and forgive our sins.ameen
remember me in ur prayers
allah hafiz

Anonymous said... 6/11/09 6:09 pm  

salaam brother and sisters;
my parents are forcing me to get married, and are fixing my marriage with out my consent. At first they asked me, but they are still going along with it. im in love with someone, he is a god fearing muslim, mashallah he reads 5 time namaaz. We do not want to upset allah by having any physical realtions before marriage, this including hugging or kissing. We want him to help us soo much. plz could you pray for us or give any duas that may help us?
allah hafiz

Anonymous said... 26/11/09 11:52 am  

My salaam to everyone.iv been reading this thread from start.i just wana tell everyone that allah is there.he listens to us,and he tests our patience.if we place faith in him he will surely accept our duas.However there are specific time that he accepts duas.
1. before asking dua we mus read surah Fatiha thrice then ask ur dua then send durood to our prophet Mohammad(s.a.w).Allah never return us empty hand when we send durood to his prophet.
Then we must read a lot " hasbunallah wa nirmal wakeel"
2. Do regularly namaaz tahajud.Its the only time that god is close to us.Allah says in the Kuran to ask dua in the last part of the night, i will accept it.
3. Do tasbih fatima.(33times subhanallah,33times Allhamdulillah & 34 times Allahuakbar)
Dear frnds iv gone through lot of hardship in life,but iv never lose faith in god,iv seen loads of miracle in life which iv obtain only from namaz.when u ask from ur heart and cry, god never reject ur dua.Trust him and insha Allah ur dua will be accepted.I will pray for u all.But never leave ur Namaaz,coz namaz is the key to happiness and paradise.And when we dnt get something,its only because it were not destined for us,why shedding tears for people who never loved us or hurt us.Leave for people who lov us truly.For eg our parents,family and so on..sadnes is part of life.A hadith says that Allah send us to bear hardship,but a true believer is one who face the hardship,coz after every dark tunnel there is light waiting ahead.
Assalam.
my email id is: cutty_fir@yahoo.co.uk

confused... said... 19/12/09 9:54 am  

i was happily married until my husbands family found out and now they want him to leave me i dont know what to do i cant lose him im going to have his baby in a few months...they told me that he got up and ran away caz he was lost and confused so i shud go home to my parents ...now hes back to them and want to leave me... i dont knw how much of that is the truth or was it all just a big lie but its been 2 months my husband hasnt contacted me at all and i tried everything to get in contact with him ... please let me know what dua i can read to bring him back i dont know what he wants or if he even said tht he wants to leave me he hasnt talk to me at all.... with all this drama going on he even told me tht he has to calm his family down he cant risk losing me because he really loves me and now all this i dont understand anything anymore... i even questioned my faith in all this mess ... please tell me a dua or something i can do to bring him back safely

pls help me get off the bad circle im in. said... 4/1/10 4:37 am  

Salam Brothers and sisters. I have been reading other peoples problems and they seem so heavy and deep to mine. May Allah grant them there wishes. I have a problem and hoping some nice people would b able to show me any duwa to read. I have been unemployed for over a year now and this is effecting my lyf now. I apply for job's but then get work'd up before interviews and some times cancel out. Please advice kind people. Thank u. U can email me at ras1001@yahoo.com

Anonymous said... 8/1/10 3:17 am  

alsalam...
i briefly read some of your messages, i went through similar situations, 'lost or forbidden love'. looking back at it now it’s really not worth all the hassle, waste of emotions and energy, if someone left you, than they don’t want you, why would you want someone that don’t love you, forget them, get over it...
let me give you some advice, we all claim to be Muslims and love Allah but how much do we really love him, if our love for another person occupies our minds and thoughts more, get to know Allah, fill your heart with his love pounder on what he has given you and contemplate the fact that you will return to him.
as the Prophet (saws) said, love who you want, for you will live them...
love for Allah is the everlasting, more rewarding...if understand that than you wownt be as hurt when a person you love don’t feel the same way, because they came 2nd to Allah
Always make dua, with a pure heart, i heard that 2 hours before fajir is the best time, as Allah comes down to the nearest heaven...
I know that its heard to comprahnad but subhanallah, Allah does know best, i used to absolutely love this guy, he wasn’t very nice to me, just lead me on, that mad me want him more, crazy enough i mad sooooo many duas, including istikhiar and salat al-hajja, i lost contact with him after a while, after he deleted me from facebook, knowing how i felt about him, that just killed me, i thought that i had lost the best thing in my life, and that i was never going to get over him, and i was like but i made dua...after the first month i started seeing things clearly, its been 8 months now and alhamduallah im sooooooooooooo over him, i saw him a couple of weeks back and felt ABSOULTY NOTHING what so ever for him...it takes time, and the duas subhannallah are answered but in different ways, im soo glad and thankful to Allah that im no longer on him or with him.
People keep your faith in Allah strong ask him to fill your heart with his love...for his is the most merciful, loving, gentle, powerfull, granter of requests....learn to love him and he will be there for you, he always is and always was...wa salam

Anonymous said... 28/1/10 1:38 pm  

i was given a wazifa that was passed down from my nana who was a very pious man. It works only for your husband, son. It does not work for anyone if they are not related to you unfortunately. You need ijazat to do it, otherwise a choorale will come and slap you across the face. This has been experienced by someone I know, and if you do it for someone who is not related to you, the choorale pulls you by the hair. So only for married women with husbands that have left them, or sons that have left. The ijazat is from my nani, so not sure if she will be willing to give it to everybody, she will probably be bombarded with phone calls. my mum has ijazat, i can ask her. I need to know if anyone is interested. I lost my husband, but he left me and divorced me so quickly i was not able to pray this wazifa, if he had given me time, i would've. You need to pray over 11 days. It has worked for everyone that has read it. But it is not to be misused, it very long and very hard to do. If anyone who is married and having problems please contact me, I will see inshallah if I can get you ijazat for it. Can not post it on here, for fear it will be misused.

Anonymous said... 8/2/10 1:58 am  

hi my sis needs a dua for the one she loves but he dnt love her any more plz she wants to get married to him so if anyone knws any dua plz mail it to me on sam_narda_carlie@yahoo.co.uk asap she is 22years old n needs to get settled thankyou
SUKRIYA AND JAZAKALLAH

Anonymous said... 24/2/10 9:31 am  

Salam brothers and sisters...

I turn you all in desperation seeking your dua's and help in getting my life on track, or back together.
A loved one walked out of my life for reason's she had, it was the only girl who i loved deeply from my heart, she was more than my everything, i wanted to do right by her and be successful, career wise and be strong and then approach her family vice versa, i earnt a hard honest living and wanted what was best for both of us, we came across many probs in the relationship but always overcame these because of our love. Im not going to go deep into everything as most of you will know if you experienced true love, i wanted to marry her and spend a lifetime with her, sadly she walked out of my life, there was not 1 thing I didn’t do for her to make her life complete, and since that day i turned to Allah for forgiveness more than anything if i said things that were out of context, for being with the girl and not marrying her, i had my reasons for that simply because of her demands, and you have to understand when a guy works all hours of the day earning a honest halal salary sometimes it takes longer to do, that’s all, it has been along time now and I cry myself to sleep everyday, there is not a day that does not pass that I yern to hear her voice, be in her arms, do what a husband would do, I’m the kind of guy that did not expect anything from her but honesty and understanding, yet I’m suffering in silence so badly.
The only thing I have going for me is my creator, who I turn to everyday, ask for forgiveness, and ask for her to come back or if not then let it go. I pray in the dark and cry so much every time so no one can hear or see me, till this day I have not given up on my namaz and inshallah inshallah I will continue to do so.
I turn to each individual one of you as a Muslim and beg for help in this, the world thinks I am doing well as I am always smiling thinking I am happy but inside I am going through torture, I am going to start a Quran again and try again inshallah and keep praying.
She has clearly moved on with her life and is happy I have been told, even still I have not given up in my faith, religion…I cant see life past her and the way I am going now and the way I am I cant see myself living much longer that’s how bad it is.
Please please if there anything anyone can do to help me in anyway may Allah reward you with all the happiness and success in this life and the life hear after..inshallah
My email address is f360spyder5@hotmail.com

JAZAKALLAH

Anonymous said... 8/3/10 12:36 pm  

I am in love with a man who is 10 years elder to me and he loves me very much too. But we cannot be together because his mother has already decided another girl for him. His dad is not alive and his mum is alone. That’s why he is getting married to the girl she chose for him. Because he doesnt want to hurt her.Also that girl is from a very rich and prestigious family.Which is why his mum chose her. I want to marry him. My whole life has been very sad and depressing. I know he has many problems in his life but i want to marry him and take care of him and bear his children. he is already engaged and getting married in december. Please this girl will not be very good for him. He has stopped talking to me because he wants to make me forget him but i know he misses me...and is trying to do good for me.please pray 4 me that this whole engagement gets called off and that his mother agrees to our marriage and that my parents also agree to it. Please pray for me and tell me how I can make dua to Allah.I know this all sounds impossible but nothing is imposible for Allah. I love this person with all my heart and want to take care of him all my life. Ill pray to Allah so that He will answer and grant all your wishes.I am ready to pray day and night if Allah will grant my wishes and mek him my partner in this life and in the hereafter. Please tell me how I can make dua.
May Allah shower all of you with His blessings
Take care

Anonymous said... 20/3/10 4:45 pm  

May Allah listen too your prayers but never give up hope inshallah you will get all that you want and if you dont get it always remember Allah will always do what is best for you. I have plenty of experience and always thank Allah for what he has done for me. I have never given up hope no matter what problems came in my live Allah has always solved them in the best way for which i can never Thank him for.

Anonymous said... 20/3/10 4:49 pm  

May Allah Bless you All rem me in your duas thanks

Anonymous said... 22/3/10 12:51 am  

I am 26 years old and well established but still my parents are not looking for any girl for me to marry. There is so much temptation here and I don't know what to do.nI don't understand why my parents don't want me to get married. Please make DUA for me that I get married soon. I am so lonely and scared I will commit sin. Please make DUA for me

Anonymous said... 26/3/10 8:05 am  

Salam, Kindly make dua for us same as all other asking. We are living Alhumdulillah a normal life but we would like to be independent in our lives. I don't want to do any job.First ask Allah to give us love for HIM, Ph Mohammed (SAS) and Ahl-Bait and forgive our sins and give us a peaceful life without any debts/loans. Hope your dua will reach reach to Allah and Allah fulfill our Halal wishes.
Jazak Allah

Anonymous said... 30/3/10 1:22 pm  

salam brothers and sisters, i am ferdusi, please can you all make dua for me, may allah bless me and my family with brighter future, and forgive me for any wrong doing in the past, and may allah accept my parners dua,and show us the way to follow the right path,and give my children the bright future and to follow the right path, we are going throw a difficult situation with money broblems, please allah show us the way, and grant my dua ameen

Anonymous said... 7/4/10 3:37 pm  

I pray for all you brothers and sisters that inshallah your duas be heard and accepted.
but in the mean time dont give up hope life is a test so make sure you pass the test.

dua said... 12/4/10 5:58 am  

plzzzzzzzzz pray me m gng thro vry critical cndtn...

Anonymous said... 12/4/10 7:24 pm  

Insallah everyones dua will be accepted dont give up hope Allah is all hearing and seeing life is a test make sure that you do your best to not go astray may Allah show us all the stright path and keep his blessings pouring on us all Ameen.Always think of all the things Allah has blessed us with and thank him and if you face hardship remember it is a test from Allah still praise him and make dua Because dua is one form of Allahs worship which he likes the most so keep making dua may Allah Answer everyones duas Ameen.

Anonymous said... 14/4/10 5:42 am  

plz brothers and sisters pray for me that Allah subhna wa tala solve my all my problems.thank u

Anonymous said... 23/4/10 5:00 pm  

Please Pray that Allah Subhna Wa Tala makes my wishes about my grades come true..i have beeen working really hard to get to where i want, but i cant do it without Allah's help. Inshallah i get that help. Please pray for me.

Anonymous said... 26/4/10 4:49 pm  

assalaamualaikum.....
plz pray 4 me....4 my 12th std results....
i juz wana fulfil ma parent's dream....datz ol...
include me in your daily prayers....

Anonymous said... 5/5/10 3:05 am  

PRAY FOR ME I LOST MY JOB AND LIVE IN A NEW CITY DON'T KNOW WHAT TODO

Anonymous said... 5/5/10 2:26 pm  

Asalaamualaikum.I read all the comments posted above and it makes me wonder.people lossing faith in Allah and giving the benefit to shaytaan.Please stop holding the Almighty liable for our human mistakes.Yes we learn by trial and error and if we followed Islam as we should perhaps we would not of found our selves in this situations.I am face with daily calamaties in my life byt not for second will I doubt the love that Allah has for me for us.Remember Allah is waiting for you to make the right move,waiting to guide you to better.Its time for all of us to let go of the bad and negative and articulate our attention back to our creator.Through a lack of discipline and obdience I was led astray but every day I make Maaf and thank Allah for being so merciful.Theres alot we need to continue being thankful for.as long as allah gives us another day,we appreciate and live it to the best of our abilities.For those of you who has lost anything,remember Allah has better waiting for you.I speak from experience.Allah be with you all.Inshaallah
all our duas will be answered.I will remeber all in my duas

Anonymous said... 7/5/10 6:18 am  

hello

Tnx to all the people for giving so much knowledge and so many faithful information...
Iam also passing thru hardship...i need prayers in abundance

Anonymous said... 15/5/10 11:19 am  

Assalamoualikoum. Ziyaad and i, have been loving each other so deeply. But his parents are against this relationship. For 9yrs he has been loving me. But we are not married yet because of his parents. He still loves me loads but he left me for his parents. Is there any duah for his parents to accept me as their Daughter in law. I can't really let him go. I love him to much. plz mail me back on farzy67@hotmail.com

Anonymous said... 28/5/10 8:35 pm  

read ya fatahu for 41days
fot marriage proposals
inshallah youl get them..
x

Anonymous said... 6/6/10 5:49 pm  

I feel very depressed thinking that i could not serve my mother as much i should be doing.I was busy with my family,job,and my own problems.Now looking back i feel very sorry & keep crying.Is there any dua which i can read? pl tell me

Anonymous said... 11/6/10 8:59 am  

salam please any one knows a dua to wnt his love back i realy love a guy and cant live widout him please pray for me

Anonymous said... 19/6/10 2:37 am  

for the last comment,salaam dear brother/sister if your mum is still wth you tell her how you feel if she is now with allah g then pray for her becoz thats the best thing you can ever give your parents, wen somebody passes over to allah g and there children pray for them and give charity in there name there journey becomes alot easier. may allah g accept everyones duaas and grant everyone jannat. ameen

Anonymous said... 29/6/10 10:46 pm  

Assalamu Alaikum, I believe there are things that if your partner does to you, you cannot forgive but make duah for Allah to Judge and sort them out. Inshallah Amiin.

Anonymous said... 1/7/10 11:28 am  

wazifa for hajaat

Anonymous said... 1/7/10 2:56 pm  

asslamualaikum.. i pray 5 times a day to god ... but i dont feel close to allah ... although allah has helped me in difficult times still i am not able to concentrate properly in prayers , i am worried .. my faith is becoming weak .. plz someone can try to respond me ..and give a solution to me..byee

Anonymous said... 20/7/10 5:02 pm  

Assalam-O-Alaikum...I can't say that I pray regularly for 5 times, but yes whenever I get time to pray I will...I'm looking for a job change..I want to earn good money, becuase I want to take all burden from my father on me...I want make them to go hajj..inshallah...But, I'm not financial good..I have got many debts...I'm presently working but searching for a new job..I'm trying for a new job from past more than 1 yr. I'm not getting any..I dont even get interview call...I'm struggling very much..I dont know what to do other than praying...Pls suggest wht I can do and also pls pls pray for me..

Anonymous said... 28/8/10 3:20 am  

asslamualaikum,

brothers & sisters, please find best solutions to all the above problems.
Solutions: Pray 5 times a day (ask Allah SWT for help & guidance) and pay Zakat, inshallah, all problems will be resolved.

kaas said... 30/8/10 1:39 am  

SALAAM HOW RU MY BROTHERS & SISTERS
PLZZ READ THIS FOR LOVE ,FOR MARRAGE, FOR TIME OF WORRY !
INSHA ALLHA

ALLAHA WILL HELP SOON BUT TURTH ON ALLAH IS WITH U


Invocations in times of worry and grief

Allaahumma 'innee 'a'oothu bika minal-hammi walhazani, wal'ajzi walkasali, walbukhli waljubni, wa dhala'id-dayni wa ghalabatir-rijaal .

O Allah , I seek refuge in you from grief and sadness, from weakness and from laziness, from miserliness and from cowardice, from being overcome by debt and overpowered by men (i .e . others) .

Reference: Al-Bukhari 7/158. See also Al-Asqalani, Fathul-Bari 11/173.

kaas said... 30/8/10 1:44 am  

salaam how r u bro & sis this the duas for making some diffcultes in love,marrage,etc... read this and plzzz dua for me also for to get my love insha allah is with there to help us !

Invocation for when you find something becoming difficult for you



>Allaahumma laa sahla 'illaa maal ja'altahu sahlan wa 'Anta taj'alul-hazna 'ithaa shi'ta sahlan.


O Allah, there is no ease other than what You make easy. If You please You ease sorrow.

Reference:

Ibn Hibban in his Sahih (no. 2427), and Ibn As- Sunni (no. 351). Al-Hafidh (Ibn Hajar) said that this Hadith is authentic. It was also declared authentic by 'Abdul-Qadir Al-Arna'ut in his checking of An-Nawawi's Kitabul-Athkarp. p106

kaas said... 30/8/10 2:05 am  

salaam in vere IMPPOTANED MASSAGE FOR ANY PROBLE ALLAH S HELP PLZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ TAKE ALLAHA CONSEL ! PROBLEM FOR MARRAGE, IN LOVE TO FOR PARTANCES ANY PROBLE , PITING NEW BUNESS, ANY THING U CAN TAKE ALLAH CONSEL THIS DUA !
Istikharah (seeking Allah’s Counsel)



Jabir bin Abdullah (RA) said: The Prophet (SAW) used to teach us to seek Allah's Counsel in all matters, as he used to teach us a Surah from the Qur'an. He would say: When anyone of you has an important matter to decide, let him pray two Rak'ahs other than the obligatory prayer, and then say:

"اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْتَخِيرُكَ بِعِلْمَكَ، وَأَسْتَقْدِرُكَ بِقُدْرَتِكَ، وَأَسْأَلُكَ مِنْ فَضْلِكَ الْعَظِيمِ، فَإِنَّكَ تَقْدِرُ وَلَا أَقْدِرُ، وَتَعْلَمُ، وَلَا أَعْلَمُ، وَأَنْتَ عَلَّامُ الْغُيُوبِ، اللَّهُمَّ إِنْ كُنْتَ تَعْلَمُ أَنَّ هَذَا الْأَمْرَ- خَيْرٌ لِي فِي دِينِي وَمَعَاشِي وَعَاقِبَةِ أَمْرِي- عَاجِلِهِ وَآجِلِهِ- فَاقْدُرْهُ لِي وَيَسِّرْهُ لِي ثُمَّ بَارِكْ لِي فِيهِ، وَإِنْ كُنْتَ تَعْلَمُ أَنَّ هَذَا الْأَمْرَ شَرٌّ لِي فِي دِينِي وَمَعَاشِي وَعَاقِبَةِ أَمْرِي- عَاجِلِهِ وَآجِلِهِ- فَاصْرِفْهُ عَنِّي وَاصْرِفْنِي عَنْهُ وَاقْدُرْ لِيَ الْخَيْرَ حَيْثُ كَانَ ثُمَّ أَرْضِنِي بِهِ".

>. Allaahumma 'innee 'astakheeruka bi'ilmika, wa 'astaqdiruka biqudratika, wa 'as'aluka min fadhtikal-'Adheemi, fa'innaka taqdiru wa laa 'aqdiru, wa ta'lamu, wa laa 'a'lamu, wa 'Anta 'Allaamul-Ghuyoobi, Allaahumma 'in kunta ta'lamu 'anna haathal-'amra-[then mention the thing to be decided] Khayrun lee fee deenee wa ma'aashee wa 'aaqibati 'amree - [or say] 'Aajilihi wa 'aajilihi - Faqdurhu lee wa yassirhu lee thumma baarik lee feehi, wa 'in kunta ta'lamu 'anna haathal-'amra sharrun lee fee deenee wa ma'aashee wa 'aaqibati 'amree - [or say] 'Aajilihi wa 'aajilihi - Fasrifhu 'annee wasrifnee 'anhu waqdur liyal-khayra haythu kaana thumma 'ardhinee bihi.

O Allah, I seek the counsel of Your Knowledge, and I seek the help of Your Omnipotence, and I beseech You for Your Magnificent Grace. Surely, You are Capable and I am not. You know and I know not, and You are the Knower of the unseen. O Allah, if You know that this matter [then mention the thing to be decided] is good for me in my religion and in my life and for my welfare in the life to come, - [or say: in this life and the afterlife] - then ordain it for me and make it easy for me, then bless me in it. And if You know that this matter is bad for me in my religion and in my life and for my welfare in the life to come, - [or say: in this life and the afterlife] - then distance it from me, and distance me from it, and ordain for me what is good wherever it may be, and help me to be content with it.

Whoever seeks the counsel of the Creator will not regret it and whoever seeks the advice of the believers will feel confident about his decisions . Allah said in the Qur'an :

"And consult them in the affair. Then when you have taken a decision , put your trust in Allah."

Reference: Al-Bukhari 7/162. and Aal-'Imran 3:159

Anonymous said... 5/9/10 5:19 am  

assalamu alaikum. i am a muslim girl and a student and i m in true love with my fellow, he knows that i cannot live without him... even then he jst ignore me bt he aws also in love with me ... 1st he said he is sincere with me bt when time passed away he gone away from me.... i want to get marry with him but a reason is that he belongs to ehl-e-tasheee n me belongs to ehl-e-sunnat... it does not matter for me but if my Allah wants it would be possible in an effective way...
Do remember me in ur prayers .. I m going thru difficult times. May Allah give me patience and increase my love for Him. And fulfill my desires of which I ask from Him. plz snd duas for this.......

Anonymous said... 7/9/10 8:23 am  

I'm having lots of trouble in life. I'm always facing trouble in my job. I want to do a degree course but always facing financial problem. I don't get a suitor to get married. Please suggest me a dua to solve all my problems and make duas for me.

Anonymous said... 7/9/10 7:30 pm  

salaam

I am going through some depression< im an 18 year old student and fell behind in school and did not get into college and must return to highschool. i also have a deep issue of watching forbidden adult videos please help me and make dua for me that one day i will get out of these problems and may allah bless us all

Anonymous said... 8/9/10 4:46 pm  

Hi All,
I have something to share. These are all love related problems and I guess the reason why people post it here is because you become completely helpless and spend all you time thinking of someone.
I have been in a similar situation for long. I have known this person from last 10 years but we fell in love just 2 years back. There were family issues for our marriage but we were both trying our level best to convince our parents. Now I came to another country for a work assignment 4 months back and we were still talking and working out stuff with out parents. But suddenly things went bad anf his parents disagreed. For the whole month of ramadan I prayed and prayed. Tahajjud and all 5 times a day. I recited Surah Yaseen almost 3 times daily. But on Juma tul vida I just happened to be blessed by Allah. Earlier I was cursing myself that because of some of my mistake I am making both him and myself suffer. I was thinking about him every second. Not a single minute passed away when I didnt shed a tear for him. But on the last friday of ramadan I found out as a miracle that he was cheating on me. That was Gods way of showing me the right path and taking me out of this. I thanked God in all possible ways. I know he knows the best and will punish the wrong doers and also bring mercy upon me.
I am asking for forgiveness for myself. But now I face the problem I keep thinking about how and why he cheated me. I wake up from my sleep thinking about him. I keep cursing him. I dnt want to think about him. I want ALlah to wipe out all his memory from my mind. I just want to work nicely and be the best daughter to my parents. I pray to God and have faith that he will end this tough time for me soon.

Please people have faith. God knows what is best for you!

Take care.
KH

Anonymous said... 13/9/10 8:57 am  

Assalamualaikoum,

I am facing difficulties, i lost the job I loved doing. I'm not receiving any proposals for my marriage. Please pray for me.

Anonymous said... 17/9/10 8:33 pm  

Salam

You should prayer with full concentration and also do dhikr, after maghrib and during the night. Inshallah you will feel closer to Allah (swt)

Anonymous said... 5/10/10 11:25 pm  

salaam - to the poster above - the fact that you pray 5 times a day means you are close to Allah.. Concentrate on a specific aspect of prayer each time, and iA khushoo will come.. knowing the meanings of each ayat/due that we recite also really helps with concentration

I pray that Allah accept everyones duas, either in this life or the next

Anonymous said... 14/10/10 5:58 am  

assalaam-alikum
dear brother/sisters,
iam loving one guy.but he is not love me.actually wht hapnd he loved one girl but she got married.and thn i entered his life.but he is not accepting my proposal bcoz iam not beautiful and also my height is low.but i dono i really lovd him.i prayed namaz also he came back again in my life.but he is telng he cnt marry me.so plz all of u pray for me.give me some gud solution.

Anonymous said... 18/10/10 1:36 am  

ASA -

My dearest brothers and sisters. I want to share with you something i read. first, we must acknowledge, since dating and getting to know each other on a non-islamic fashion is not allowed, these feelings and memories are not a sign of love but punishment. these same memories and feeling of hurt because of heart breaking is indeed punishment for being in an inlawful realtionhsip. it does not feel so good now. take this time to ask for forgiveness. take this time to repent to Allah (swt). i have been where all of you are. those sweet thoughts of the other person are only sweet while you are in the relationship. so my brothers and sister, in the future be causious of your actions. for now, there is a Hadith, which says "sincere prayer can change even the destiny". so ask Allah (swt) for your needs and desires and He will surely grant it to you in some way or the other. I hope and pray Allah (swt) grants you all khair in this world and hereafter. Please keep me in you duas as well. Salaam

Anonymous said... 31/10/10 1:46 am  

All praise and glory be to Allah, Above all, Creater and Master of the Universe, The One and Only Source of Life, peace, blessings and mercy be upon the prophet Muhammed and his family, O Allah please forgive me for all that You know of me, please forgive me for all of my major and minor sins, the sins i hide and lay open, all of my intentional and unintentional sins, o Allah please send peace, blessings and mercy upon all muslims on earth, please forgive all muslims on earth for all our past sins, please let there be peace in afghanistan and iraq and please liberate both muslim countries, o Allah please always let me live a very good life,o Allah i beg of You that i never suffer from any mental illness, nor any mental disease, no one is worthy of worship except Allah and there is no God except Allah ameen, ameen, ameen. from Tameem Hessam.

Anonymous said... 9/11/10 7:54 pm  

Please ya allah s.w.a fulfill everyones dua, we have our trust in you. Only you we shall turn to and only you we shall return to, please dont turn them back empty handed...ameen

Ya allah s.w.a you are Ya Raheem, Ya Karee, Ya Noor Ya Ghafar al Rahman. Ya allah s.w.a with the waseela of our leader Muhammed P.B.U.H and in the name of maii Fatima Zahra, Maii Amina Bibi, Kali Kamlee, and in the waseela of these special 10days of Zul Hajj Please please fulfill everyones dua and and fill their hearts with the love of Muhammed P.B.U.H. Ya allah s.w.a please send my love back to me, make him realise how much I care about him and what he means to me. Ya Rab make S a good muslim free him from his pain and problems and fill his heart with plenty of love for Islam, our Prophet Muhammed P.B.U.H and for me. Make his heart tender make him open his heart for me allow him to open up to me and tell me how he feels. Ya Rab make S tell me he loves, me bring him back to my life and never take him away. Connect mine and his naseeb/taqdeer together, make me strong enough to help him through his troubles and give me the opprtunity to show him how much I love him. Make S get intouch with me a.s.a.p.

Ya Rab I am not a very good muslim and full off many sins but ou are the forgiver and the healer to you I seek for forgiveness and for help. please I turn to you with full of hope please don't turn me away, send my S back to me just the way you sent him to my life at the beginning!!!

Ameen, sum Ameen

Anonymous said... 18/11/10 6:49 am  

Salaamz...I am a businesswoman who has done well over the past seven years. Suddenly, i am in debt and in need of help. I am so stressed and very saddned. However, i pray all my sala and do lots of Dhikr. My situation could have been worse. I am still surviving bu a thread. Please make dua for me that i pay all my debt. i just want peace. Brothers and sisters, i pray so hard and ask Allah so sincerely. i know he will answer my dua. i just want to be happy and not depend on anyone.I can feel the stress having a bad effect on me and my health. I urge you to please make dua for me ....

Anonymous said... 20/11/10 6:56 pm  

Salam 3alikoum,

Wich dua i have to read to get my first love back

Help me
MAy Allah help you All Insha Allah

Anonymous said... 23/11/10 6:23 pm  

ASlkm.........
hey read ya wajidu 1400times evry day inshallah both d family il agree...
n read bismllahir rahamaan nir raheem(786times)evry day dil mein mohbaat paida karre ga n read hazajt evry day until ur wish is fullfld..aur dil se twaba mango n dnt evr mis tajud....do has i say u'l b d happeist person wth reading 5tms prayr

S+T 4 life Ameen said... 26/11/10 7:08 pm  

Salamz evryone... I hope evryones prayes get answered Inshallah... I have a different sort of problem... My family r very strict i told them about someone i want to marry my mum is so angry she said i am dead for her. My family is putting me through alot of stress as he is also from a lower cast:( he also wants to marry me but we are both young and want to carry on working and saving money... My family are saying bad things to me everyday. I now find it too difficult to take and want to leave home but he dosent want me to leave my home i really want things to be better and want to live alone where i can do things for myself and not for others anymore.. i do so much for everyone but still nobody is satisfied... Pleaseee help me.... :(

Anonymous said... 1/5/11 1:21 am  

Assalamu aleykum everyone.
I hope no one lose faith in Allah. Do not stop supplicating, do not stop hoping. As it is said:
"If you make intense supplication and the timing of the answer is delayed, do not despair of it. His reply to you is guaranteed; but in the way He chooses, not the way you choose, and at the moment He desires, not the moment you desire."
–Ibn Ata’Allah

"...and never give up hope of Allah's soothing mercy; truly no one despairs of Allah's soothing mercy, except those who have no faith."
(Sura Yusuf 12:87)

"Because calamity and illness are the time of supplication; to be cured is not the result of the supplication. If the All-Wise and Compassionate One bestows goodness and healing, He bestows it out of His abundant grace.
Furthermore, if supplications are not accepted in the form we wish, it may not be said that they have not been accepted. The All-Wise Creator knows better than us; He gives whatever is in our interests. Sometimes for our interests, he directs our prayers for this world towards the Hereafter, and accepts them in that way."
- Said Nursi

May Allah lead us all to His pleasure and have mercy on us all and forgive our sins.

Wassalamu aleykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.

Anonymous said... 1/5/11 10:09 pm  

Salaam,
From reading the above posts, seems like most are related to loving a certain person. We should remember that Allah has chosen that person for us who we will InshAllah marry.
In the meantime, we should make dua that Allah brings the right person to us, and the person who is not written for us- our hearts should be turned away from. We should remember that no-one loves us more than Allah (swt) does, and He will only do what is best for us SubhanAllah. Sometimes we feel our duas are not answered, or that Allah hasn't given us something we haven't asked for- for that is not true- we have limited knowledge, and only Allah (swt) knows best. If something does not come out way, then it mean Allah has something even better in store for us inshaAllah, therefore we should not be disappointed.
We shouldn't be having relationships before marriage with anyone, as it will only lead to heartbreak and the Shaytaan plays its tricks. Instead, make dua to Allah, engross yourself in prayers and you will find peace. It says in the Qur'an "Verily in the rememberance of Allah, do hearts find rest", so please continue dua ask for forgiveness, and have patience Inshallah.
Please remember me in your duas, may Allah forgive me for anything I have said mistakenly. Aameen.

Anonymous said... 2/5/11 3:42 pm  

assalamualaikum
i m inlove with a guy,actually i have seen him n one function3 years back.from that day i pray to allah plz allow him to become my husband.is there any dua tha i get married to him as soon as.plz help me.

Anonymous said... 14/5/11 12:52 pm  

AOA. i have just read all the comments one think i want to say that .never and ever lose your faith allah is very kind .he says"ask from me i will give that for you"i am also in the same cndtn .i am truly in love with someone he also loves me alot and alot.even the prncpl of my clg knows about us they tried their best .they inform my mother that i am in relation ship with a guy but allah knows the best that my love is pure .even we both have not talk face to face he is hafiz of quran .his family is agree for this relation and i have faith that my family will also become agree but the prblm is that we are going to abroad . i cant leave him once i gone to abroad then it will be so dfclt to me to comes back .i dont know what to do .i have no contact with him neither an id nor any phn num . how can i inform him i dont know .plz brothers and sisters pray for me plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz .

Anonymous said... 20/5/11 1:31 pm  

Assalaam Alaikum....
I want to get back the person whom i loved...due to some family reasons our relationship was denied by our families...is there any dua that can make that possible....I'll be really grateful

Anonymous said... 25/5/11 5:32 am  

Asalaamualaikum. My love and I have been in a relationship for a year now. From the past one month, we have been having difficulties in which a lot of them have happened because of my silly mistakes. This is leading us to nowhere and he is not willing to be with me anymore it seems so. Is there a Dua to get my love back? I really love him a lot and want to marry him and live with him. Please help me and tell me if there is any dua? Thank you in advance

Anonymous said... 20/6/11 6:51 am  

Asalaamualaikum. Please everyone make dua for me I am going thru a real hard time right now I have no job. And pleaseee help me marry the man of my dreams please.


Thank You

Anonymous said... 21/6/11 5:38 pm  

excuse me sir my friend hes suffering very much because of 45 bullets in his arm and heart can u please pray for his recovery i am very far away from him please pray for his recovery, i want him to get better please pray for his recovery

Azam said... 25/6/11 1:06 pm  

Asalaamualaikum,
Pls make dua for me !!
i have a christian girl friend to whom i want to marry , but she dont want to conert to muslim , she is aking me to convert to chrishtian which i cant.

I am in deep love to her

pls pls requesting and begging to all pls make pray for her and make her mind to know ISLAM better.

Pls i have tried my best , even make her to read few para but she dont want to convert ....

i know pray to Allah can make changes in anthing.

Pls contact me if u need on my below mail ID


my name Mohammad Azam
Girl Name : Cecille Sanchez
email ID : azam.globus@gmail.com

sAIF said... 25/6/11 4:42 pm  

Salam Walikum Dear Bothers And sisters, Just pray and pray and pray and remeber me in your prayers, and make Jikir of ALLAH when ever you are free. or all the time.. pray for all mankind and pray for all Muslim people to guide us to the write way... try to cry in sisda. its can possible when u have feeling for din, and for our Profit (MAY ALLAH BE PEACE UPON TO HIM) so Jikir all the time atleast when u r free its a very easy ibadat for ALLAH to seek any goodness. may FORGIVE US AND SHOW US WRITE WAY/ AMEEN

Anonymous said... 27/6/11 11:02 pm  

Inshallah

Anonymous said... 29/6/11 10:39 am  

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Anonymous said... 15/7/11 5:31 am  

Asalaam aleikum brother and sisters i have the same problem too,but i believe prayer can break mountains and with faith everything is possible. We have to be patient and have faith in Allah and pray for forgiveness all the time. Inshallah all will be well

sumitha said... 17/7/11 11:07 pm  

Assalamu Alaikkum,
Brothers and sisters,Im writhing here a very effective Dua for getting sudden answer.
1. The first six Ayaath from Surah Al-Hadeed
after that recite 2. The last 4 Ayaath from Surah Al-Hasr(سورة الحشر) after that u can ask ur needs to Allah Almighty.or after Surahs u can say this prayer also.
اللهم إنى أسئلك باسمك المخزون والمكنون الطاهر المقدس الحي القيوم الرحمان الرحيم ذىالجلال والإكرام أن تصلى على سيدنا محمد وأن تفعل بي كذا وكذا برحمتك يا أرحم الراحمين

Anonymous said... 22/7/11 7:03 pm  

ASALAM O ALIKUM WRWB
HAVE FAITH IN ALLAH SWT HE IS D ETERNAL ABSLOUTE ! ALLAH SAYS ND I M TO MY SERVANT AS HE EXCEPTS OF ME, I AM WITH HIM WHEN HE REMEMBERS ME, IF HE REMEMBERS ME IN HIS HEART I REMEMBERS HIM IN MY HEART, AND HE REMEMBERS ME IN AN ASSEMBLY, I MENTION HIM IN AN ASSEMBLY BETTER THAN HIS ND IF HE DRAWS NEARER TO ME A HAND'S SPAN, I DRAW NEARER TO HIM AN ARM'S LENGTH, AND IF HE COMES WALKING I COME RUNNING !"
SUBHAAN ALLAH !

HADITH:
ALLAH SAYS THERE IS SOMETHING U LOVE AND THERE IS SOMETHING I LOVE AND ALWAYS IT WILL HAPPEN WHAT I LOVE SO IF U LOVE WHAT I LOVE THAN I WILL HELP YOU IN UR LOVE
(may ALLAH swt forgive me wid words i tried translating it as it is from urdu)

DUA:
O REHMAN
WHEN I LOOSE HOPE AND MY PLANS HAVE CUM TO NOTHING , THAN HELP ME REMEMBER THAT UR LOVE IS GREATER THAN MY DISSAPOINMENTS AND YOUR PLANS FOR MY LIFE ARE ALWAYS BETTER THAN MY DREAMS !
OH KAREEM
TO U I SUBMIT MY DEVOTION ,IN UR HANDS IS MY LIFE U KNO WHAT MY HEART WISHES AND THERE IS NOTHING IMPOSSIBLE FOR ALLAH ALMIGHTY SO WASH AWAY MY TEARS AND HUG ME BCUZ I NEED U TO U ONLY I LOOK FOR HOPE OH ALLAH ALMIGHTY ! AMEEN
NEVER LOOSE HOPE BCUZ ALLAH LOVES U !
LOVE ALLAH LOVE WHAT HE LOVES
HE LOVES U HE IS D ONLY D ONLY ONE WHO UNDERSTANDS U !
RUN IN ALLAH'S WAY ON UR WAY U WILL INSHALLAH ACHIVE EVERY THING !
MAY ALLAH SWT FORGV UX ND LXN TO OUR PRAYERS ND SAVE UX OL FRM HELL FIRE !
JAZAKALLAH KHAIR !

Anonymous said... 1/8/11 2:55 am  

Im in love with guy n he loves me too but suddenly he lefted me..i prayed alot namaz,wazifa,tahajud..but he didnt came back..i feel like m psycho..i really cnt live widout him I tried to forget him but it is impossible 4 me..still I talk 2 him now at ph coz when I dnt listen 2 him feel like m dead..soon thy guy will get married with his mother favt. Girl..he said he dnt want 2 hurt mother..i dnt knw where my duas r going?? Now my faith is getting weak..but I really dnt want this happen to me..nothing is impossible for allah..he can do anything..allah says keep on praying I will listen u..n our prophet (saww) says always do dua, coz dua can changed kismat..i dnt knw where my duas r going...plz pray for me n all the belivers who is asking for allah"s help.... Let me knw any duA, wazifa so I may get back my love..
plz

allah ya kareem ya raheem the creator of this world plz forgive us for our sins..plz listen to our prayers..we r already weaken if allah u will not accept our duas we will broken completely...plz allah listen our dua n needs..ameen

Anonymous said... 2/8/11 3:03 pm  

Salaam brothers and sisters. Please make dua for me. Me and my partner are going through tough times and I want to make it work. Please please pray for us in the beautiful holy month. Or please tell my of any duas that I can recite.

Anonymous said... 9/8/11 12:41 pm  

Respected Brothers and Sisters

The beneath post is brilliant on what alot of you are asking about..

From what some of you have mentioned, if you have intentions of marrying this particular brother / sister. Alhamdulillah, by means of tying the knot, insha Allah you will be saved from the many fitnah and fasaad (trials and corruption) which many youth face nowadays because of their unwillingness to get married.

In Islam, there are certain ways of doing things so then one's actions will always comply to Shari'ah. Similarly with marriage. Unlike the non Muslims who promote relationships prior to marriage, Muslims should not succumb to that level.

We try to the best of our capabilities to avoid any form of contact with na mahram. What this means is that, we express our desire to get married to a particular individual via our mahrams and female relatives only.

In your case, the best would be to convey your desires via people like your father, brother, uncle etc. Tell them about the brother / sister you wish to marry and then get your mahram relatives to do some investigations of the brother / sister (eg. Is he interested? Does he want to get married too? Is he / she actively seeking for a spouse? etc.).

Later on, if the brother / sister expresses his/her wish to wed you too, then you together with your family members and his/her family members should take further actions to proceed with the preparations. Always bear in mind to observe Shari'ah laws and restrictions throughout the procedure.

Finally, it is highly urged to make solaatul istikhaarah to seek guidance from Allah. Act according to the result of the istikhaarah. If it is not in your favour, then you should muster courage to stop everything. Have faith that Allah has better plans for you insha Allah. Otherwise, there is absolutely no harm in carrying on with the marriage.

Also, one should avoid from thinking about any na mahram as to do so will be sinful. Make taubah and ask Allah for sincere forgiveness if at all any thoughts of the brother/sister came to mind. Then, make a firm intention to never again think about the brother or any na mahram for that matter in future.

And Allah knows best.

Wassalam.

Source : muftisays.com

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